Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. Just to add too- I've been ignoring her weekly texts for roughly the last six weeks. Ill do what you say and leave him alone and hopefully he will come to me at somepoint. If he continues to show up at your door getting angry, get a restraining order. Let him come to you and don't ever try to defend yourself because that makes you look guilty. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. 1. I was starting to feel like I was almost over her too and she just randomly shows up. By Showing up to a public court with No Balls, Press J to jump to the feed. I would be throwing hands if BM walked into our home uninvited. As Birdonawire mentioned, it's hard to say what she wants. Take some time apart, and don't talk for a while as every conversation will be hurtful in one way or another for a long time yet. Ice queen 3. I truly love her I mean we overcame huge hurdles to be together. I even told her that my mistake was not letting her go and letting her deal with her issues on her own instead of making her problems, my problems. I tell her that I gave her the best of me, but I completely changed my lifestyle. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I'm still sticking with no contact. She obviously has some issues to work out on her part though and maybe last night was the first step for her in doing that? He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they Woke up a sick Child, pulled a her out of bed and carried her out and her in the car and left. So I was just minding my own damn business last night and this happened Last night, I was sitting on my couch around 10pm, watching TV. He was married, but intending to leave his wife. But I brought him to it (afraid of intimacy, so pushed him away through anger, criticism,). Oh yeah, her and I weren't even friends on Facebook (I removed the connection 3 months ago) and she completely blocked me today. You are adverse, Dana Perino South Carolina House . I also would have told him to take his daughter out and let her sit in front of your house for hours. Submitted: 3 years ago. Not as much though, so getting better. All completely unhinged and in an argument with my bf. My SO is upset with me over this decision. Are you interested in getting back with him after the way he's treated you and even said that he hates you? I love him with all my heart but he just will not believe me. Her: Again, I thought you should know how I feel about everything. LOL. "He was my everything"I hope that is just an expression. I just wish I knew what he wanted from me. Nothing ever seems cut and dry in this department. Perhaps this was a mistake on my part. So good for the child right!? I am trying to figure out what he was curious, it's not going to ask this because I know my post which I realize that I dont like it, but haters are always staring at my mother's home on my ones. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. Hard to say for certain, but four months isn't very long. He is still clearly in love with you but very confused and hurt. An example of data being processed may be a unique identifier stored in a cookie. Im constantly trying not to get my hopes up but I still do Its also a constant battle to stay NC especially after today. This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies. I havent been in contact with her for a month straight. 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I still can't get over the audacity of her, dude. I don't want to help my SD get a scholarship for school. Why does my boyfriend keep his exs things in his house? I would full on her a restraining order. She had pushed marriage in so many different ways but i just did not have the money to ask her father. Did she come in and make coffee, and demand you to go get her the creamer she likes? Ooph suddenly so thankfully that BM has a big mouth about me behind my back but is so intimidated she doesnt even want to see me. All four month probably just hit her all at once. My ex has only supervised visitation, but he keeps showing up at my house without notice or permission and making major scenes to see our son. Write it down and date it. OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means? Make sure to keep your door locked. File it as a stalking incident. What really rubs me about this situation is this. I cant move on, and I just wish I could perform miracles or have a time machine, I would have behaved differently. when i asked him why he came after he started being nasty he started crying and just said. Did you lose yourself in this relationship? What boundaries are appropriate for my boyfriend's ex? Ex husband tried at each place to show up unannounced and come in, with the premise of dropping my daughter off. 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By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. No Result Or you'll have her really messing with your emotions. I think you need to tread carefully with him. Actually, as far as being final messing with her I think that's a good example of you closing the door that she wanted kept open. At the time, we agreed to split up and take some time to work on ourselves. 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I'm actually dating a lot of different girls, but I didn't tell her about this. She made references to it a few different times a Also why the emotional break down in front of you? I think he has some growing up to do. Started Saturday at 09:38 PM, By Izzy1234 don't do it with some hidden agenda of trying to get them back. And I know it isnt right for him to call me names and say nasty things. I pretty much let it go this morning and feel back to normal now. I've already told her that I'm not going to chase after her. I know I cant save him and it needs to come from him but something just doesnt add up. You are looking : showing up at ex house unannounced. It looks like the finality of your break up finally hit her like a ton of bricks and she came running back to you. We and our partners use cookies to Store and/or access information on a device. All this after 4 months. Both of us have been involved with other people, yet she still came running back to my apartment for whatever reason. He insists that I have cheated numerous times which is completely untrue and he keeps pushing me to go along with it but I will not lie. What would you do in this FACEBOOK/Match.com situation? That's the only reason why you came over? T, How To Draw A House Without Lifting Your Pencil . I say stay away for your own mental sanity. Tries to get back with his ex while wooing you. The link is not clear, but angry attachment interferes with male bonding. She has a lot of issues to work on and you don't want to go there, nor can you help her out. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. It caught me way offguard and the fact that she lied to me, bothers me. I don't think I'd communicate with him in person just yet. Reply . It is also a sign of pathological jealousy. Has an ex ever showed up at your house unexpectedly? Basically in a nutshell, my ex and I are still in college. I still love him so much I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. Showing up unannounced or uninvited. Log in or register to post comments Really.. you would call the By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. It just tough for me to figure out because I don't even think she has any idea what she wants. It's freezing outside. Started Thursday at 10:00 PM, By So even with her being so worried about her daughters well being she didnt even attempt to get ahold of my bf via my phone. He either needs to believe you and move on with you, or not believe you and end it once and for all. That's abuse. And this is torture. I am no longer angry with her but the trust was completely broken. Some people have been saying I should never have told him but I felt he needed to know the truth. Yes the trust is broken, I just hate this feeling. She is a mess right now too. What's your gut tell you? It has definitely set me back a little. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. She kept saying that she didn't know wha Read More >. Kartoff I've learned from a lot of my mistakes that I made in the past. Should this be cause for concern in my relationship? He does not have the right to show up unannounced and call you a liar and make accusations. Read More >, This has never happened in our family before. I hate her and her audacity and crazy. OK, often "sorry" is just short for "Ha ha, I screwed you over and there's nothing you can do about it. Just wanted you to know." Sometimes it's ge That is dads job. She said our relationship was good for people who were a bit older, but not for college kids, which I agreed with her on. I don't want to get your hopes up but I think you have a good chance of reconciling if you play your cards right. We used to be so happy. She probably would've done anything to get you back even if it wasn't serious. Just wanted you to know.". Who knows though. she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. I was very worried. Just two days ago he said he never wants to see me again. So really nothing bad happens since the school will always call in that case. Didnt say much. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. i would never force anything like that. We both agreed that we needed to be alone because we became so consumed with each other. You , Drawing Personality Test House Snake . She tells me that it was equally as hard for her and she kept pushing me away because she knew that she couldn't face me. I'm guessing she would have either a) not even gave you the time of day - or - b) been cold and then kicked you to the curb. Our relationship over the last 3 years has been hit or miss so I think it was meant to be a good talk to set things up between us better. should applaud her she got balls. Please use the report button to ensure we see it. I was told that he kept telling her that he didn't want to be with her and she wasn't taking the hint and continued to hang out with him. I understand this. I Am The Only Family Member Not Invited To A Wedding - What Should I Do. At this point, my shield that I put up when she came through the door was slowly starting to fade. At first he seemed very calm and when I asked him how he was feeling he started to get agitated and then broke down again. We also really wouldnt want him texting and driving, cell phone usage near schools is also illegal and bc you know the schedule, you can always offer reassurance if shes unable to reach him. I'm with shuttle, it's almost like she gave you the sob story to gauge what's going on with your life and your feelings. The truth is there is only him. I dont even do that to my own mother . Do you know if she saw someone after you guys broke up? Commiserate with others in similar situations, celebrate your wins, and hang out with people who just get it. Started Monday at 08:56 AM, By Continue with Recommended Cookies, By I guess they start to get a little nutty when you ignore them for weeks. But I do love her anymore and just deal with this. This is an act of stalking. My ex showed up once years ago after I started dating another girl. Something is fishy here. Kartoff Been there done that. Started Friday at 11:13 PM, Mel Robbins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Psych2Go posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Tony Gaskins posted a blog entry in Youtube, September 23, 2022, Yahoo posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022, Newsweek posted a blog entry in News, September 11, 2022. I dont know why he came this morning. She didn't say anything about being friends, getting back together, or whatever. Unless the ex invites you, then no, I wouldn't do it. Thanks. What do you think? Ex turned up outside my house this morning. So frustrating. Only the one in her head. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns. Seems like basically what everyone is saying is be cautious. Don't do it. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. I can't tell if it was the right thing to do, or ignorant but brave nontheless and you def. And I got really mad, saying that I felt like she used me, I felt like a two-year crutch. He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. +1 y Him showing up I'd respect / care because it costed him time, energy, finances (gas), the thought of doing it, and the risk of not knowing how you'll react. That is dads job. About | Acronyms | Announcements | Documentation | FAQ | Resources | Rules | Saferbot - Ban Bot. Tjeesh. If you do not want them on you property, you can ask them to leave. Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. Turns out he left. Read More >. I provided all of her emotion support, I always paid when we went out, etc. She kept on turning the knife already stuck in my heart. Haunted cannery spook house, Sun In The Second House Synastry . It may or may not work, but its atleast a more passive approach to someone HC & also allows you to kind of assert your position in their lives - which I have found is important considering they often live in denial. Our number one rule is ._3K2ydhts9_ES4s9UpcXqBi{display:block;padding:0 16px;width:100%} Do what you do, be kind, gentle, respectful, and apprutiate her the way she is, because at one point she was your best friend and partner. Just seems so crazy if you ask me. He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. im not sure what you meant by, "OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means?". Your emotions will come flooding back and you will be left feeling worse than before you showed up. He insists that we promised eachother but all I remember is him saying he did not want a relationship. I should have said I was busy and couldn't come to the door or whatever. ._3-SW6hQX6gXK9G4FM74obr{display:inline-block;vertical-align:text-bottom;width:16px;height:16px;font-size:16px;line-height:16px} No Result I've talked to friends and they've just told me to stay away or else I'll just get hurt all over again. I dont understand why he wanted to talk after saying he never wanted to see me again. Im so depresses, adgetated, stressed, frustrated, anoyed, hurt, and desprate, i dont want to go home many times when im Just asking opinions from lawyers of possible actions to do? If you are unsure of your rights, you should consult an experienced real estate lawyer in your area. And I told her straight up that I don't even know her anymore, I'm sketpical, and that I don't trust her. Some of our partners may process your data as a part of their legitimate business interest without asking for consent. Unless I really, really wanted him back, I wouldn't want him coming over. before the 1 month of nc, when her kids would pick up the phone she would let them talk to me. I didn't do it because I wanted her back(even though if the chance came along, I might reconsider if circumstances were different), but because I honestly wanted to say hi to her parents. ._1QwShihKKlyRXyQSlqYaWW{height:16px;width:16px;vertical-align:bottom}._2X6EB3ZhEeXCh1eIVA64XM{margin-left:3px}._1jNPl3YUk6zbpLWdjaJT1r{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;display:inline-block;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;padding:0 4px}._1jNPl3YUk6zbpLWdjaJT1r._39BEcWjOlYi1QGcJil6-yl{padding:0}._2hSecp_zkPm_s5ddV2htoj{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;display:inline-block;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;margin-left:0;padding:0 4px}._2hSecp_zkPm_s5ddV2htoj._39BEcWjOlYi1QGcJil6-yl{padding:0}._1wzhGvvafQFOWAyA157okr{font-size:12px;font-weight:500;line-height:16px;border-radius:2px;margin-right:5px;overflow:hidden;text-overflow:ellipsis;vertical-align:text-bottom;white-space:pre;word-break:normal;box-sizing:border-box;line-height:14px;padding:0 4px}._3BPVpMSn5b1vb1yTQuqCRH,._1wzhGvvafQFOWAyA157okr{display:inline-block;height:16px}._3BPVpMSn5b1vb1yTQuqCRH{background-color:var(--newRedditTheme-body);border-radius:50%;margin-left:5px;text-align:center;width:16px}._2cvySYWkqJfynvXFOpNc5L{height:10px;width:10px}.aJrgrewN9C8x1Fusdx4hh{padding:2px 8px}._1wj6zoMi6hRP5YhJ8nXWXE{font-size:14px;padding:7px 12px}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y{border-radius:20px}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y:hover{opacity:.85}._2VqfzH0dZ9dIl3XWNxs42y:active{transform:scale(.95)} I was very confused as it was his day to get their daughter so I didnt know if it was an emergency. I know you love him and I know how painful it can be for you when you just want to be with him but right now you need to work on yourself and leave him to come to you. ._2Gt13AX94UlLxkluAMsZqP{background-position:50%;background-repeat:no-repeat;background-size:contain;position:relative;display:inline-block} She seems less and less. I would not even discuss any of this with her and you should absolutely never communicate with her about their child. I haven't read any of your other posts but he sounds like a person fresh into a breakup - hurt and angry. I have never gone to his work either. Huge mistake on my part by doing that. Im finding it hard because I think NC is best but I dont want to make him think that Ive moved on and am "already seeing other guys" like he suggests. Even though I've been dating and enjoying the company of other women for the last month or so, my ex still has some control over me. I think it's wayyyy too early to tell. Its such a sad situation. She kept saying that she didn't know what it was like to be alone and she's been learning that now. Anyone reading my previous threads would know that my ex hates me and says he never wants to see me again. The house w, Parsons Ks Haunted House . But theres always another incident that she feels no wrong doing from really need advice on how to word a boundary about our place and showing up unannounced. I don't want anyone showing up at my house at 7am unannounced, especially my ex. ._3oeM4kc-2-4z-A0RTQLg0I{display:-ms-flexbox;display:flex;-ms-flex-pack:justify;justify-content:space-between} Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. A former candidate for the state legislature was arrested Monday for allegedly orchestrating the shootings at the homes of local Democratic officials. . In reality she knew what she had except for some of my flaws and didnt know what to do. 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